what is the measure of a man?

 i could still remember the time when i was busy reading my book in gmrc back in grade school..i will never forget the common notion of ’success’..as the picture showed, a man can be called successful if he has a good, stable, high-paying day job with a two-storey, 3 bedroom house, a loving wife, jun-jun, nene, and bunso; of course we dont forget the ever loyal dog- bantay and ming-ming the cat..
the way i see it, its just unfair if success can be quantified by just that..in reality, i dont know anyone who has that..so can i say that nobody is successful? of course we know and can say that our boss is successful, if only he has a good family or he has no other women, worst- if he’s just not gay..
can we conclude that gay people can never be successful if we look at success this way?

whatever we choose, it’s our own..